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Should I take a risk and make a move?

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Question - (3 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i met this girl i reallllly like her i think she might like me too but im not to sure if she likes me so i really dont know what to do. im afraid if i ask her out and she says no it may ruin our friendship i dont know what to do im falling for her and i dont know how to know wther she likes me more than a friend is there any way to find out. but in a way that wont really risk anything so without her knowing how i feel

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008):

hey,

wow so ur kinda in the same boat as i am!! well i say talk 2 ur shared friends and c what they have heard and watch her 2 c if she flirts with u!! if u cant tell if she is or isnt then watch her around other guyS if her aditude changes then c n what way (does she laugh more or less, does she touch their arms,hand,waist,etc etc) i know still that is complex so then turn up your flirting and see what she does or says. this may seem hard long and complicated but its not it should only take about a day to figure out!! but just askin her out may make her feel uncomftorbal no matter what the answer is so u have to makk the 1st move!!

good luck,

"candy"

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A female reader, KTP United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2008):

Ask her. But make it a casual drink or something. Do something amazing like find out what her favourtite desert is, and pre-oder it with the chef, ask them to make it if they don't already! Something crazy and romantic that shows you're thoughtful and you care =)

I wish you all the best wishes in the world! Let us know how you get on!!!

~~KT

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

Faint heart never won fair lady.

Ask her out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

She'll most likely be very flattered and take you up on your offer.

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