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writes:My girlfriend and I broke up after a wonderful six months. We were and still are in love but she broke up with me because she wanted to prove to herself that she can be independent and live without relying on someone else. So unfortunatly I have to suffer because of that. She said she still loves me but recently has been bitter to me. Ignoring me and stuff like that. But I've been trying to reconcile, you know continue to be best friends without the relaionship part but it seems like she wants nothing to do with that. Recently she told me that she is sorry for treating me like this and that she's just been hurting a lot since we broke up. My question is should I just strengthen our friendship, continue to grow personally and hope that soon she'll come around and come back to me or should I just forget about her and our friendship???I truly love this girl and she loved me but this is soooo difficult to see her as anything other than the love of my life. I don't know what to do. Can someone help?
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reader, here_2_help  +, writes (10 February 2007):
 you know what, i really feel for you. You have done nothing wrong and the pain it must be hard to imagine but if you really love her then let her go thats what true love is and in time the pain will get easier.Give her her own space and time let her breathe. and if she does not come back to you let her go and be free.hope this helps xx
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