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Should I stay with the girl I'm with and be happy or try for another girl and possibly be happier?

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Question - (4 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, *eallyscared writes:

Ok so I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and i love her very much. But my mind kept wandering towards another girl, and for almost a year now i still cannot get her off my mind. I am so confused. I have dreams about her i love seeing her. Yet when i am with my girlfriend I am happy. what should i do? Should i go with the one i'm already with and remain happy? or should i break up and try being with the other girl and maybe being happier. It is so hard. I love both girls yet i can only be with one. The other girl is so beautiful and fun filled and i know she would be faithful to me and always kind and just. But my girlfriend she is a bit rough more to the point and has a colorful past with certain substance use and one time she almost cheated on me. But i have been with her for 3 years and we have so much past and i would never want to hurt her. what do I do?

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