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writes: I'm 20 and as a student i work at the bar with mostly older male population.The thing is that my wildest sexual fantasy is to have sex with someone 50-60 years old. And in this bar i've met the right person, who is obviously very attracted to me. Since the first time i've shown interest in him (like a month ago), he's there almost every time i work - sometimes even twice a day and we often have hot small talks. His friend even said that once whenhe saw that i'm not working he went home. He turns me on everytime i see, flirt or have dirty, sometimes layered conversatons with him. I'm single, very picky, quite good looking girl and to be honest i haven't had sex since the last autumn. He's 55, quite smart, i have feeling he's good in bed, married but seperated for a long years. I know that he's not going be my boyfriend and i don't even want that, i just need lover before i find "mr. right" and have serious relationship. So my question is, is it would be wrong to start living this fantasy with 55 years old? And how to get him out of the bar and have sex with him without other's knowing about that?(i'm sure he's not going to tell anybody)Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): As long as he isn't married
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 If he's single, attractive (and attracted) to you and you are both mature enough to deal with the consequences, why not? The only thing you might want to watch out for is if he wants a relationship and you don't. That might get messy.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 ... Lucky guy ;)
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (28 July 2010):
 I would say that IF this is something you want to do and can be sure he uses protection (condom) because you don't want to risk getting an STD - and he might be healthy, but its not worth taking a chance - to go for it, but for the fact that separated or not, he IS still married. You can really only know what he tells you about his marital status, after all, so you need to be very careful.
It could be as wonderful as you fantasize and live up to your expectations. Are you prepared that you might find yourself falling for him - or he might fall for you. You don't want him to be your boyfriend - but it could happen. Or, looking at it from a negative point of view (sorry!) it could end in disappointment.
The choice is yours.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 I think that if it makes you happy you should do it. Just be safe with it and make sure that he knows that you are not looking for a relationship here. You two could talk about it at the bar and decide on a date to meet somewhere away from that place so no one would know.
Living out fantasies can be very rewarding in some cases and I think that more people should try them out as long as they are harmless.
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