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Should I settle with a girl who claims she's pregnant with my baby?

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Question - (11 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2010)
A male Zambia age 36-40, *oxana snipes writes:

i falld in love with two girl and dated them both.my first girlfriend discoverd that i was seen another girl she conflanted me and i admited.my second girlfrind also discoverd and i admited but i cheated sayaying that it was over and she was now my best friends.because of this my firt girl friend stated cheating on me with onother guy.i was comflanted by her boyfriend over our relationship and it pisd me off and told him i didnt want anything 2do with her anymore i ended the relationship and contnued seen my second girlfriend.after same time my first ex girlfriend stated calling me.i had a soft spot for her so i toralated her she wanted me back in her life.i stated meeting her secretely.we had sex ocasionary_a month latter her boyfriend met us together and comflanted her in my presence over what she was doing with me when she knew she was pregnant with his chiled.now she claims its my baby.i dont trust her anymore and i love my curent girlfriend too much i dont want to let her down she loves me to the aborn she knows evrything and still loves me. what should i do? should i setle down with a girl i used to love because she claims to have my baby which cant even be comfirmd or should i go where my heart is and propose for marrage. plz help

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A male reader, Roxana snipes Zambia +, writes (12 September 2010):

Roxana snipes is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i would like to say thankyou to the cupid team,calm and all the arngon aunts for the effort and tromendous work that you guys are doing in asisting us sort out our problemes.Your advirse is greatry valid.Thanks allot

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A female reader, almc Canada +, writes (11 September 2010):

Wow! You got one great girlfriend there my friend. To put up with all of that and still tell you she loves you and wants to be with you. First thing, if you say you love her and want to get married to her then STOP!! Cheating on her, its so wrong. Second, you need to find out if that's your baby, DNA test is the only way, you can't go on what she says, because she doesn't even know whose baby it is. Sleeping with two men at the same time. A doctor is the only one. So the day that little baby is born get tested!!! Don't wait a month or weeks after. As for going back to your ex girlfriend, you need to go with your heart, and go with the one you love. It doesn't matter if that baby is yours you don't need to be with the mom to be there for your kid. I hope this helps, but stop cheating on your girlfriend, and get a DNA test my friend gooood luck!!!

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