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writes: The guy im seeing right now has fingered me a few times but we havent done anything very serious. im wondering if i should do anything for him in return ...? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 I know that he is expecting something in return but you shouldn't do anything (blow or hand job) unless you want to. Don't feel preasure from him but its not fair that he continues doing things if you are not ready.
If you aren't ready then it would be best not to let him continue till you are ready.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (12 October 2010):
Hi there. Don't do anything unless you mean to go further with this (Sex).
In fact, don't do anything to him until you are fully ready, because it's a big step and you don't want to take it lightly.
See how you feel about him over time and how he treats you as well. If he treats you well and with respect, and if you get along well with each other, then consider whether you want to go further with him.
Don't allow yourself to be pressured by him, into going further until you are absolutely sure that's what you want.
Hope this helps you. Take care and best wishes.
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