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writes:The guy that i like called me 3 times last night but i couldnt answer because i didnt have my phone with me that night. then he left a message. i emailed him asking if he called he says "no why baby?" why did he pretend as if he didnt call me? a few weeks later i emailed him, he talked about how this girl made him mad and when i asked him how hes been he didnt reply.. i really like this guy.. should i jus move on and forget about him or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): Okay so this guy that i went out with for about 4months even though its a short period of time it was tha greatest 4 months i fell in love with him and he had told me i was his first love. well apparently one of my ex's had made this horrible mess saying that i slept around with this guy that i only thought was cute. well because of him me and the guy broke up. well a little later we were really pissed off at each other for the longest time and at times he would text me telling me he loved me. but he was going out with this gurl of 7 months relationship that went to my school. i was with another guy so i didnt pay attention to it. well when we started hanging out it was really weird cuz i had a feeling he still liked me. and i thought i hated him but honestly im still in love with him. so we ended up having sex. so i told him how i felt but in return he told me that he was still inlove with his girlfriend and wants to be wi8th her. but how could he do that to her yu know? well when i had told again after some drinks i had asked him if he loved me and told me enough to cheat on his girlfriend. i don't know what to do with him.......i keep having sex with him but its cuz i love him......should i just move on?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 July 2008):
Well he sounds like a bit of a flake. If you were in front of his face he'd probably be wonderful and romantic but then you'd go home and he'd forget to call, or cheat on you.
He sounds like he would make an awful boyfriend so I would just steer clear.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Ohmy77  +, writes (31 July 2008):
I would suggest moving on, most men when it comes to women have no problem letting them know if they are interested, it sounds like he was involved with someone and she "made him mad" as you said in which case he tried calling another female....either to get back at her or just to hook up....in either case....sounds like he's not worth it....do you want to be with someone in a relationship that as soon as you upset him or make him mad, he then turns around and begins calling other women ?? I doubt you do....so there's your answer hon....:)
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reader, Ohmy77 +, writes (31 July 2008):
I would suggest moving on, most men when it comes to women have no problem letting them know if they are interested, it sounds like he was involved with someone and she "made him mad" as you said in which case he tried calling another female....either to get back at her or just to hook up....in either case....sounds like he's not worth it....do you want to be with someone in a relationship that as soon as you upset him or make him mad, he then turns around and begins calling other women ?? I doubt you do....so there's your answer hon....:)
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