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*aphael1
writes:Hi, don't know if this is the right place to ask this. Seeing a therapist due to neediness issues. Only thing is I'm still quite lonely and wondering if it's worth trying to get a girlfriend at the moment. Therapy could take a while to end and I'm sick of being single but then I'm afraid I'd be back in my vicious circle - trying to make a girlfriend make up for the lack of unconditional love I experienced as a child and then driving her away and then being even more miserable. Help!
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reader, Mummy08 +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Have you thought about just having a friend you need to be single untill your issues are resolved but you can have friends who will get you through ask your therapist what they think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): A person who is levelheaded and comfortable when alone ultimately makes a better partner than someone who is "lonely & sick of being single". You may be better off completing therapy before surprising another partner with your unresolved childhood issues.
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