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writes: i was seeing a guy on and off for 2 years. he is in the army so he travelled quite a bit. he knows i fell in love with him. i havent seen him for 13 months now, but he is back in my city for a month or so. he told me about 6 months ago that his ex wanted to get married, as they have 2 kids togther and he is giving her his answer at xmas. he told me they are not together now and he doesnt really love her but because of the kids he will think about it. maybe its a army thing but he seems to have problems showing his feelings. anyway he wants to see me. and he still hasnt made up his mind about his ex. i know i shouldnt see him but it is so hard not to. he has been so much nicer this time and saying things that he never said before about us bein together in a round about way. most ppl think its just cause he wants sex, but i know when we are together there is more to it. i can tell he really likes me, and believe me i have annoyed him enough that if he didnt he would have got rid of me long ago. should i see him and see what happens?
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 If it was me I would let him go until he has worked out what he is going to do regarding his ex and the marriage thing, all the time you are around he can't worry about what it would be like to not have you anymore therefore not realising how important you are or not in his life which could be the tell tale answer to his situation.
I really don't believe in people just getting married just because they have children together, if he doesn't love her he shouldn't marry her but that is between them and really not alot you can do in his decision regarding her.
Good luck :o)
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