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writes:All my life my decisions on most of the things has been based on rational thoughts and this is something where I can't use plain reasoning to figure out. Whats bothering me is that I have feelings for my best friend. She was in a relationship with one of our common friends. All of us used to hang out together in a group with a couple of more friends in school. We all moved to different places sometime back and after that they broke up. Its been 3-4 months since they broke up. I am not really sure whether she has feelings for me. It probably may not be. Even if the answer is no I would be happy I gave it a shot. I wouldn't be breakig my head like now. 1) So now the question is whether I should go ahead and tell her considering all the past?2) And I am scared I might lose her friendship?
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reader, inluvbutsad  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 You shd go.once even i was stuck in a situation like this and went and shut my eyes and told her everything.Now we are as good as ever
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2009): I suggest you go ahead and tell her. Whatever her reaction whether negative or positive is the risk that you would have to take if you really want your feelings for her known. And anyway, since its 3-4 months since she broke up with your friend..there is also a possibility that she is not over the break-up yet (if the relationship with her ex was serious). You can find it out anyway or see any clue once you tell her about your feelings.
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