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female
age
22-25,
yoli
writes:i have a problem with my mans friends they are disrespectful to me and my man but he lets them talk do that to him, so i got angry and went home when now i ask him to let us talk about the issue he doesnt want to talk after me calling every day and asking that we talk he just says he wants a break. i ask him for how longhe just say he doesnt know, i dont know what to do,should leave him and give him his space or what?please help
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (7 December 2007):
 Again, I'm with Baby Duck. Good words.
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (7 December 2007):
 Males, on the whole, think that females think too much. Don't be offended by that; it's just how we're wired.
Men bond by busting each other's chops, but they don't usually rip on a friend's woman. If this is truly happening, it might be a red flag that you have different values that cannot be reconciled. On the other hand, maybe you're very sensitive. Not enough info to make a call.
If he's giving you the silent treatment, than you give him the boot. If you talk too much, than give him some space.
Guys see all those questions as needy or useless. Discuss the minutiae of the universe with your girlfriends.
I apologize if I sound harsh. I've been married for nearly 24 years and my two sons are young adults, so I have a clue about men. For some reason, a lot of females think that men are women but with different parts. Men process information differently about pretty much everything, and they don't even think about most of the stuff that goes through a female mind. There are human needs and wants that we all share, but then there is the stuff of the sexes.
You know, relationships do take work. But the day to day stuff should just flow. Know yourself and meet your needs.
Best wishes.
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