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writes: I was hoping for some advice. On the weekend at a friend's party I spent most of the night talking to this totally amazing guy- he is gorgeous, sweet, and this sounds really cliched, but we talked about everything and it felt like we had known each other forever. He went to school with me a few years ago, and I've often seen him round town but I've never spoken to him before, and I only just found out that he was no longer with his long-term girlfriend. He definitely seemed interested- he asked me all about myself, and said that he had always thought that I'm "beautiful". Unfortuneately though, I had to leave suddenly for my ride so we didn't get the chance to say goodbye properly. Also, I told him that my boyfriend had recently broken up with me so wonder if he would've asked for my number or anything anyway.There seemed to be so much chemistry and I really want to see him again. Sorry this is so long, but my question is, do I get his number of my friend so I can text him or something? Or do I just wait and see if he tries to contact me as it would be just as easy for him to as he knows my friends and where I work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): Well today I mentioned to my friend that I wanted his number and she happened to be seeing him this afternoon so convinced me to let her give him my number instead! He texted me pretty much straight away and seemed really pleased- also said he was gutted when I left the party:)I'm so happy and excited now and can't stop smiling, it's ridiculous:) So thanks for your advice guys- whoever said girls can't make the first move?
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reader, giggles +, writes (14 August 2006):
hi i think you should just go ahead with it and ask you're friend for his number.what if he is waiting for you to make the first approach too.if u spend all you're time waiting for him to make a move and vice versa you wont get anywhere and the sooner you do it the better as you haven't left it so long after you met up.make up a reason to contact him like i hope you never thought i was being rude by rushing off the other day at the party,i was having a really nice time and just wanted to see if you would like meet up again to catch up abit more.dont let him slip away from you if you like him alot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2006): why wait? i'd say just go for it. if you guys have as much chemistry as you make it sound, it doesn't seem like a big deal if you initiate anything. besides, why is it always the males job to initiate? if you like this guy, go for it!
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