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writes:I know this question is going to sound really small compared to the others i've read, but...I'm in a realtionship, this guy called Bob ;) We just recently got back together, after I heard some rumour about him, which turned out to be untrue.He says he is in love with me, but I just feel nothing.When I dumped him, he cried and whatnot, and said he wanted me back.I don't know whether or not to dump him, because if I do, he says he won't talk to me anymore.I really want to stay friends, just not a couple.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): hey hunny,
i disagree with 'emilysanswers' you have to do whats best for you because you trying to please bob with lies is going to get very hard and very complicated. so i say if there really isnt anything there for u talk 2 bob and c if u can convince him 2 stay friends.....i know from experence if he really loves you he will think about you all the time and want 2 call you all the time so you being there when he does need 2 hear your voice will probly be best.....but wait a month or 2 before trying 2 become friends (you dont want him hooked on you)! soo yes u should end the romantic relationship not the friend relationship!
good luck hope this helped!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 June 2008):
Unfortunately when someone is in love with you then you don't get the choice of being friends again.
You can either lead him on to keep him in your life, or you can do the right thing and tell him you don't love him and you don't want him to be hurt but you can't be with him.
Most likely he will not want to be your friend for a while and he will need some distance so he can get over you. After that perhaps you can be friends again but you have to do what's best for him, not yourself.
Good Luck!! xx
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