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writes:Im 17 and ive been working as a waitress at a local pub for about 6 months. We're all really close and a few months ago two new duty managers started. Ones a complete jerk, but the other is really nice. He's 25 and we can talk for hours about everything and anything. we were texting each other the other day from 6pm till like 3am,the nextday i was up at work talking to a mate and he was upstairs on the sofas, i went up and we were talking - next thing i no - im being woken up an hour and a half later, we didn't sleep together or anything but people started to make comments. i gave him a lift home the otherday and hes been eating crap and i offeredto cook for him. so after work yesterday i went to his to cook dinner - he ended up doing it - we talked constantly. then we went out to the shop andbrought some drinks. went back to his room, he laid on the bed and i sat in thechair we were just hanging out watching red dwatf and entourage and nothing happened. my matesthink that - a girl + a guy + alcohol + double bed = sex (well should do) and they think it's really weird. I heard him say at work that he wasn't didn't think he could get anyone that worked at the pub.Asi said he's 25, hes not badlooking and hes bald. I'm not trying to be vain, but im fairly good looking and my friends think i'm an idiot fancying him. But i always go forthe best looking guy and they always end up treating me really badly. Maybe for oncei should go for the guy with the personnality and maybe he'll treat meright. The main boss saidthat shehas no probelm with in-housedating, but i'm really confised, should i go for it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): date him...life's too short not to...if you like him date him...ask him out.
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reader, penta  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 No. Never date anyone you work with. The complications are endless. Not just if you have troubles and need to bring them to work, or if you're sweet on each other and ignoring your work, or the gossip from everyone else because they see you. But also because you have no place else to go; everyone needs some apart time, and you won't have a place to get this. This doesn't even address the age difference, which makes it even harder. Do yourself a favor and don't go through with this.
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