A
female
age
36-40,
*hakira25
writes:Hi guys, I met a guy at a party 3 to 4 months back. We met again for a date and we made out but didnt have sex. I also notified him that I am not a "one night stand" sort of person and i am just waiting for the moment. He seem to understand that and we were still meeting and had good times and made out, excluding sex. We also made good conversations and talk about his life and family and vice versa. By June we got to know each other quite well. I went for a holiday in Barcelona in July and even he was there since he is from Barcelona and he shifted back. I met him, had good time . Fortunately and coincidently, i got an intern in Barcelona and I am planning to shift there. I accepted the offer and he knew about it. But he doesnt know that I accepted the offer partly because I can be near him and want to know him more.I didnt want to mention this feeling because I thought that he might feel weird. Main part of this topic is that I had sex with him before leaving Barcelona on 12th July. Infact, he also met me for lunch before I took the flight the same day. I sms him a "thank you note and seen you soon", to which he had relpied. I also wrote a msg on skype that reached home safely blabla.. when he was online and expected a reply from him. But i didnt receive any reply back till now.So I want to know whether, I lost my respect or not? Because I am at all a one night stand person and even he knows that. I think i really like this guy since we clicked on very well. We were very comfortable with each other. Since i will be in Barcelona I dont want him to see me as one of the girl he can get laid with. I want to get my respect back from him and dont want to give up on him. I dont know how to clear this matter out- on phone or msg or face to face when I see him next. I am in very confused sate and I cannot concentrate on anything. Pls help me and how to go about
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reader, Shakira25 +, writes (17 July 2011):
Shakira25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso should I give him a call or something.. even after he hasnt replied to me. The weirdest part is he hasnt replied.. even after knowing him for so long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): If you don't want to be considered that 'type' of girl or a one night stand, make sure the two of you are in a serious, monogomous boyfriend-girlfriend relationship before you have sex. Otherwise, you risk becoming just a fling.
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