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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 6 year now, since high school. we were eachothers first everything. I know that he loves me, and I know that he always will. He still tells me that he wants to marry me and wants to have kids with me. I believe him. However, he hasnt had a cell phone in a long time and we dont live together. I get mad when he goes out with his friends and he doesnt call me. I would always be the one to get a hold of him, but not until the next day or two. This has been going on for a couple of weeks now, and i've been telling him how i feel. but he is still doing it. i've gotten to the piont where i feel like he is either cheating on me or he doesnt care about me or he forgets about me. when i tell him how i feel about it, he tells me that he is always thinking about me and that he feels that i am always with him. should i be worried that something is going behind my back? Reply to this Question
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reader, Joey 2008  +, writes (25 August 2008):
Hi, This is a difficult situation to be in, i was kinda in the same with my gf. The best thing to do is to talk, although it does seem strange he does not have a cell phone? He is just out enjoying time with his friends, and you are feeling insecure and is he cheating, the best thing to do and what i would reccommend hun is to sit down and talk to him, tell him how much u love him and that u dont want to lose him, and u feel insecure and worried when he goes out, if he loves u he will say dont be soo silly i love u and i wouldent do anything to hurt u, i think thats what he will say, but sit down and talk before the situation gets any worse. good luck, let me know how it goes! x
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Sweetie, sounds like he has got so used to you that he is taking you for granted. These issues need to be sorted out before considering marriage. You need to discuss this with him and ask him to attend relationship counselling with you.. I dont think anything is going on behind your back, its just that you are not on the top of his list of priorities.
Honeygirl
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