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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for a couple of years now. He's amazing and we're so happy together. However, last week he went on holiday with his brother and some friends and ever since he's come back he's been acting weird. Yesterday I was at his house and we were kissing and touching, I got really turned on and he seemed so too but when I tried to instigate sex, he cooled off. I asked him if there was anything wrong and he just got angry at me. I didn't bring up the subject again but the same thing happened today. Should I be worried?
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Hmmmm. The response above me looks like the "submissive gf/wife approach."
How is he usually? When you initiate sex does he usually go along with it? I think that you should be worried. It makes me think that he got herpes or something while he was on holiday.
Explain to him: "Look, I am not the type of girl that thinks that just because you are not having sex with me you are having it with someone else. If you don't want to make love to me, that is fine." Maybe this will cause him to be less angry with you.
To make sure that he doesn't have a disease or something, maybe be subtle like, instead of trying to initiate sex, be like, "Hey, I'm going to take a shower, you want to take one with me?" (You know subtle things like that. Don't overdo it or he will know that something's up.) This isn't a fool-proof method, considering that he might just not feel like showering or something, but I think it might help, at least for STD's that can be seen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): theres nothing to worry about. that happens very often when your apart from a loved one for quite some time, but then the love works on again and everything gets back to normal. You just have to be loving and caring towards him. be charming and make things extra special. avoid arguements or bringing up the subject as this would make him more angry and put him off more.
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