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writes: Should I be jealous if my girlfriend massages another man?My girlfriend has just started a massage course. This might at first seem like a dream come true. In the course they practice on each other. Most of the students are girls which is just great. It's like a fantasy come true. But there are also a couple of guys. Now the thought of her getting oiled up with some other guy is just not sitting comfortable with me. Plus she's talking about the course at work and I can just see every guy wanting her to practice on them. Part of me says I should be shouting from the roof tops saying my girlfriend is learning massage and I'm the luckiest man alive, but actually I'm just not happy about it. I basically don't want my girlfriend massaging another guy, or being massaged by another guy. I'm feeling pretty jealous about the whole situation.She's really enthusiatic about the massage course, and I really don't want her to stop doing something she enjoys. Should I just accept that she's going to get oily with other men, or should I tell her how I feel?
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):
 I can see why your worried and concerned but it sounds like your girlfriend is taking this course seriously therefore she probably isn't even thinking anything wrong or different about having to massage other men that is of course if she actually ever gets put forward to massage one of the men.
I would just accept that its her course and that it is something she may have to do and that there is nothing sexual involved in this, you really don't want your girlfriend feeling uncomfortable about her course and what she has to do on it, feel like she isn't trusted by you or even to the point where she feels she can't come home and tell you about her course incase you get jealous.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (25 September 2006):
 I can understand your jealousy as I would feel the same if my man were doing a course like that. At the end of the day though you have to realise it is all proffesional and it is something she is keen on doing.
I am afraid you will just have to be happy for her as you do not want to push her away, do you?
Just think about all the free relaxing massages you are going to get!!!
You could ask her one thing though, to keep it proffesional and not to just massage any man from work that she can practice on.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): I can understand your fears and jealousy,But at the end of the day all she is doing is taking a course she is interested in.And you said there is only a couple of guys and mainly woman.She may never come in to contact with these guys and if she does she is only doing what she is told to do on the course.If you can look at it in this way it would save a lot of misunderstanding and your G/F may take a offence to the fact that maybe you dont trust her and i very much doudt she would give you any reason for you to feel this way.Just think it will be you she will practise on and think yourself lucky that she is doing the massage course. ;0)
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