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writes: Hi. I'm not really sure what to do about this girl I met last Saturday. She was really attractive and we had a nice conversation and I'd really like to ask her out but I don't know if I should because we just met Saturday and probably will never see each other again - unless of course I ask her out. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, PsychicHigh +, writes (17 November 2005):
Just don't rush it.
My first girlfriend I asked out onto more dates just 3 days after meeting her for the first time. Though I talked to her over the internet for about a month prior we met in person at something called Rock N' Ride at West Edmonton Mall. Though for us being young, she was 14 and I was 16, we did hit it off and we did last for a long time for our ages.
If you don't ask her out on a date, you WILL be kicking yourself in the butt later on regretting your decision.
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reader, falloutgrl163 +, writes (17 November 2005):
It depends on what you mean by "ask her out".
If you want to ask her out on a date with you, then i see nothing wrong with it for that's a great way to build a friendship with someone you are attracted to.
BUT, if you mean asking her out as a girlfriend, well... that won't be a good idea because every relationship needs to build on a strong foundation, which is a great bonding friendship to begin with.
Since you have just met this girl, only time spent (being her friend and hanging out) will tell whether she is the right girl for you. Just knowing someone for a week is not long enough to get to know her on a deeper level and know what she does for fun or how she carries herself around her friends.. or are sure that your relationship will last in the future.
Other than that, hanging out with her and getting to know the real her is a great start!
Hope that helps a little and Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005):
The Risk equation:
If you ask and humiliate yourself you may never see her again.
somewhat minimizes your downside.
Since we have never meet the girl you have to decide the upside for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005): Ask her out, you only live once!
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reader, shania  +, writes (16 November 2005):
 Ask her out,remember,faint heart never won fair lady.Chances are,she is going to say yes.Then again,she might say no.Nothing in life is guaranteed.Just say,would she like to come out for a drink,something nice and casual.If she says no then its her loss.
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