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Should I ask my wife about her sudden, and welcome changes in sexual behavior?

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Question - (25 November 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2012)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am 32 and my wife is 28. She is a very moderate woman. Recently we went on for a long drive and we had some sexy talks coming in. she indicated about having a threesome and I joined her in the talk. it was very nice.

while the way she told she want to pee and I stopped car at a secluded place for her to be free. she did pee sitting in the open itself. normally she used to go behind a bush or some cover.

we stayed there a while talking on the same things and she asked me to go down for her. she was such open and kind of outgoing all in a sudden. I wonder why such a change. normally she always preferred to have in very private places.

Do I have to ask her about why the changes! will it be wise if I ask!!

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (25 November 2012):

DV1 agony auntThat book is evil... She probably read that, or just decided to try something new. Just relax and enjoy...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2012):

To be honest (I've heard it's the same for men), on long drives, the blood all tends to flow to that region, many men and women all experience this when on car drives etc. so therefore she was thinking in overdrive. Either way i would consider this a good thing, you're wife is has sexual thoughts she would like to express to you.

If i were you I would talk to her in a relxed way about this and about you would like to be/remain fun in your sex life together, at some point. Don't act like her behabiour was weird or even unexpected that day or else she will feel that any time she has an urge or feeling of any kind in the future. she cannot communicate that to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2012):

I too immediately thought of the book, Fifty Shades Of Grey. Its has been called Mommy porn for good reasons and has awoken a new sexual interest in many women. Your wife's sudden change could be due to something as 'innocent' as that but try asking if this new side to her sexuality is worrying you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2012):

Has she read 50 Shades of Grey? If so this very well could be the reason, a lot of women who have read this seem to find a new side to themselves.

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