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anonymous
writes:should i ask him to be my valentine? for the past 2 years i've spent valentines day alone then i met the most AMAZING man in the summer and we started a relationship. unfortunatly he broke it off, but we are trying to maintain a friendship. i'm deeply in love with him and try each day to get him back. so do i ask him to be my valentine? i've been looking forward to this day since we first met. Reply to this Question
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reader, stina  +, writes (9 February 2007):
 Hello Anonymous,
If all he wants to be is friends, then by asking him to be your valentine it might push him away from you. I know if I just wanted to be friends with someone who was in love with me, I would not want to spend a romantic holiday with him/her. If you do ask him, be prepared that he might say no. But if he says yes, try and remember his stance on the relationship. Don't try to set yourself up for getting hurt. But who knows what could happen. You know your relationship with him better than anyone here, so I think you'd be the best one to decide whether or not it'd be a good idea to ask your friend to be your valentine.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): I think you should, because you`ve been alone in valentines for two years. And because you`re trying to come back again with him. I think it`s time to talk with him and tell him all the truth. Maybe the things could be great!!!! I wish you GOOD LUCK!
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