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writes:Im in College and theres this girl who I fancy. Can't say I really like her at the mo. Should I ask her out on a date. Should I cos I've got nothing to lose. Thing is though I'm not particularly good looking. Do you think cos of this she'll say no? Reply to this Question
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reader, towapa +, writes (18 September 2007):
 I'd say go for it! But you should get to know her first and become firsts, it might scare her off if you just ask her out straight away. However, if you're already friends, then i think you should ask her out to the cimema or something, just you and her, and don't bring anyone else out incase she thinks it isn't actually a date! Hope this helps.. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): do you have a girlfriend or someone else that likes you? if not, go for it. don't if you're going to betray someone.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Let me tell you about really good looking women. We look at them and automatically we think they have someone all ready, or we can't match their expectations with what they are looking for.
Because of that, did you know more good looking women stay at home on the weekend board because their waiting to be asked out, but no one does? Think about it this way. You look at her through your eyes. Looking in that direction she's hot, but how does she view herself. Does she look in the mirror and say to herself, dang if I was not me, I would date me, I'm just soooo cute. If she did, she wouldn't be in school, she'd be checking herself out in every mirror she could find.
Treat her as a person, not for her looks. You'll find, all though they look great to you, to them many times they think their just another normal person with the same problems everyone else faces.
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (17 September 2007):
Try going out as friends at first and get to know each other as that - just friends. Over this time you will get to find out if you really like her and you will learn for sure if you really want to date her. Isn't it more wise to do this as opposed to jumping in with two feet? - The chances are that she will refuse your invitation for a date at the moment purely because she does not know you yet and girls tend to refuse a date if they are in doubt of what they want.
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