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writes: My husband wants to have a threesome with another women. And I am totally turned on by it. But I am afraid it will ruin my marriage. I have never been with anyone but my husband and he was very "busy" in his 20's. So I am afraid it is his way of getting back to his wild ways with my permission. While I do like to fantasise about it, I am just too afraid of it. But I also want to keep my husband happy sexually too. We have a wonderful relationship and part of me says what would be the harm since we are so close. Would this ruin my marriage?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2006): I'm also in the same situation I want to have a threesome and I told my husband and he hasn't really said much about it ....although he wants it to I'm sure cause he didn't say no, I'm scared it is going to hurt my marriage and the way I look at my husband after I see him having sex with another women. What should I do? Good luck to the rest of you!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005): just wanted to say i'm in the same boat. But instead, it's me who bought it up in our marriage and now my husband is all excited about it. So since he is sooo excited now I'm wondering am i making the right desicion. will this ruin my marriage??? good luck
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A reader, Liddie, writes (15 March 2005): After a few months in a monogomus sexual relationship with a guy, he found a girl who wanted to threesome with us (my idea, I always wanted to do it) - and it was fun - But I WARN YOU -- any time that he spent on just the other girl, made me feel sick and a bit jealous. And that was with a guy I WASN'T in love with.PLUS - the threesome did ruin the lovely situation we had because he wanted to continue seeing the girl (even without me) and I wasn't down with that.Long story short - the fantasy is FAR BETTER than the reality... I hope you make the right decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2005): You are obviously not feeling to comfotable with this and therefore you should not do it.You say you want to keep your husband happy sexually, but your feeling do count as well. Your husband should respect your decision should you decide not to go through with it and leave it at that.Why people who supposedly love and care for each other would be happy to watch each other having sex with other people beats me.I am by no means a prude, but my hubby and i love each other so much and have so much feeling for each other that we could never even contemplate it.I do believe tho that if you go through with it, it could very easily cause complications in your marriage. Do you think it is really worth it?? I doubt it.There are lots of other ways you and your husband can enjoy sex.Leave the threesomes as a fantasy and concentrate on each other. If you ask me 3 is definatley a crowd!!!
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