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writes:Where do I start. I can't believe at my age I'm feeling the way I do. I love my ex girlfriend with everything I have. We were together for 5 yrs. The last three on and off almost 20 times. We have been apart now for two months which I'm afraid may be for the last time. She is in her mid 30's me my late 40's. She has lived w her mother all her life. She is very selfish and has an extremely hard exterior. I have treated her like a lady and the best someone can treat someone. She constantly picks fights with me and keeps pushing till sometimes i finally lose it. And then breaks up w me. It is always me to chase after her then we get back together and it happens again. She constantily looks to fight w me. She has an uncontrolable temper. She is constantly ready to explode at the drop of a hat but only w me and sometimes her mother. She is very understanding with everyone else, but not with me. She does have a wonderful side when she wants to display it which has been decreasing over the last few years. We are broken up now and what she says is that we cant be togehter because we dont get along but she starts 95% of the fights. She has never said that she doesnt love me but maybe she doesnt anymore. I have given her 2 eng rings and was going for a third before we broke up again. And its her who has said she wants to get married and have a child. I and others have said, have you looked at why you dont get along? She replies it doesnt matter why we don't get along, when in fact it does. What can I do? I want us to be together how do I get her back and make this healthy and permanent? I have not chased her this time but I don't thnk she will come around after me. She never has. Any ideas? was trying to give some details, sorry so long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): She doesn't love you the way you want because she is a self-lover. If her feelings were genuine she would not have the heart to hurt you over and over. Even a lion knows when to stop the chase and find somethang more tasty.
pant, pant.
rest and move on..
carpe diem.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 "What can I do? I want us to be together how do I get her back and make this healthy and permanent?"
You can't... but feel free to keep chasing this woman forever. You may think that getting married to her will change her and solve all you're problems, but it won't... your problems with her will likely get worse!
Can you honestly imagine living with a woman like this... 24/7 for the rest of you're life?? Your hair will turn grey then fall out after a few months!!
You gotta know when to hold em', know when to fold em'...
For the love of god... FOLD!!
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