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writes:Hey yall, My GF is like my Sweet little Angel, but the problem with her is that she accepts to anything and everything that I say... like If I wanna have sex midnight she is OKAY with it...If I need a blowjob she is OKAY with it...If I do anything at all she is OKAY with it...And at times she also gives me Surprises by stimulating me even If Im not in the mood...And the blowjob at sleep which started just now again surprisingly stimulating stuff...So she basically does all this for me, Since this happens all the time I seriously dont know what she likes and what not...?At times I feel like she is doing it just because I ask her to...I spoke to her about this and she says "What you like is what I like?"Is there anything I can do about it to make her express her feelings and interests or dis-interests? or to make her use her own head(brain)...?I know she's my "Sweet Little Angel" and not my "Sweet Little Slave".
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Show her you appreciate what she does. Treat her well and charish this relationship. She'll only be your slave if you treat her that way. Treat her like your angel, because that's what she sounds like to me.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue +, writes (18 August 2010):
 It can be frustrating when a person won't answer your direct questions, but maybe she honestly doesn't know what she'd like. Maybe she hasn't had enough experience to know what she likes and doesn't like. So use YOUR brain and shower her with loving gestures that you think she may like! Then you can judge from her reactions which gestures are successes and which aren't. Sometimes the kindest, most loving thing you can do is use your own creativity to surprise your loved one with something they didn't even know they wanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): I'll tell you what she likes, she likes to make you happy. What makes you happy makes her happy as well. People like her are hard to find. You should surprise her too. Buy her flowers, take her out, tell her sweet things, stuff all girls like :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Well first you should stop asking her for everything. (just for a little bit. a few days) Ask her what SHE wants. Go out one night and tell her "anything we do tonight is totally up to you. I have no say in it." And if she's its up to you say no. Maybe do something sexually for HER and don't have her do anything for you that time.
But you never know she actually might really be like whatever makes you happy, makes her happy. So then show her how much you appreciate what she does for you! :) Good luck! Hope this helps you a little!
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