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writes:I'm 16 and i need help. There's a girl at school that I cant stop thinking about and she has thought about me before but I don't know what to do because she's a good friend and I don't want to ruin that and I don't think she want's to either. Please help me I'm drowning Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): I concur with Mommyofthree, on this one. It can be hard to remain friends once you have changed the dynamics of a friendship to dating. Sometimes if a dating relationship just doesn't pan out...you may not be able to save your friendship. Sometimes, there simply is no real friends in former dating partners-there's usually just one wounded person and one guilty one. Best to think this through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005): Hi I'm 14. A mate of my in school, also a boy, went out with a girl, he dumped her, and yet they're still good friends. Inly thing is... she was an internet and phone girlfriend. Talk to her about it if you like her that much...
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (14 December 2005):
 In many cases it is hard to maintain a friendship after a relationship gone sour. Thats not to say it has never been done but it is very hard to get over whatever made the relationship not work, and in the end some people just can't do it. You need to tak to her and see what she thinks. If you are mutually attracted to each other you may find it hard to just be friends any way. Good luck.
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