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writes:I have been in a relationship for 2 years in May with a girl i love with all my heart. She used to put everything she had into our relationship and i mean anything but we almost broke up and i moved to California but then we started talking again and i came back for her ever since then i feel like i do and do for her and she wont show me love or do the things she used to do for me she wont even stay over at my house for more then a couple days and the only thing i ask her is to try and get better friends the kind that dont try and convice her to do drugs smoke or to leave me. What am i doing wrong?
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (17 February 2010):
 The only way you can really make her show her love to you is to get her all on-her-mind-24-hours-a-day in love again with you. Maybe she's just used to being couple. Ruffle things up a bit, show some chemistry again. If you two are definitly worth it, you'll be able to immerse her in love lots of times. Once she's lifted of the ground, she'll try to lift you of the ground too and it'll all start by opening up to you more and more. So the key is to romance her in a very special way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive explained to her how i feel ive told her all this and she says she still loves me i just dont feel she shows it is there anything i can do to make her prove her love or atleast to start showing it
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reader, Boombadaboom +, writes (3 February 2010):
from what you've described, you haven't done anything wrong but hey maybe it's something else that's wrong... maybe it's your girl who has the problem... who knows? I once tried to convince my girl to get better friends and not start doing drugs too but it didn't end up very good. Hey, try your best to be the world to her but if you're not, don't settle for anything less.
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (3 February 2010):
Tell her about all of this, find out whats changed for her. If shes not showing any love, then maybe shes already left the relationship metaphorically speaking. Let her know how you feel and if this doesnt work then the only options are stay or go. And when i say go, i dont mean an earth shattering end to the relationship, you could just drift away, absence make the heart grow fonder. Drifting away will force her to either show love to get you back or let you go, all without a horrible ultimatum.
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