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writes: i have been going out with my girlfriend for 1.5 years. she told me that she loved me a few months after we started going out then a few months ago, she cheated on me. we made things work and got through that but ever since she has never told me that she loves me. i talked to her about it and she says that she doesn't feel the same way eventhough it feels that she loves me more now than she did before. its obvious that we cant be apart from eachother but if things are going to to continue like this, i dont know how much more i can take. its tearing me apart. what should i do?
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reader, DoctorGayLove +, writes (18 June 2006):
I'd need more information to properly comment, but I'd say that she did feel love for you but lost it for some reason before she cheated on you. She felt bad because the new guy was a jerk and she wanted you back. Odds are she will break up with you or cheat again. Sorry, but you should cut your losses and leave her now if she's not as loving to you as you want. Good luck!
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reader, ariel  +, writes (17 June 2006):
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You need to realize that only you can make yourself happy. You said ,I quote “she says that she doesn't feel the same way even though it feels that she loves me more now than she did before its obvious that we can’t be apart from each other” . I think you are not over the time she cheated on you. You are hanging on because you are scared to be alone and scared that you are not going to meet anyone else. You need to take her off her pedestal and see her for who she really is. It’s not you who should be ass creeping it’s her .She broke your trust she should be working hard to repair the damage.
If you choose to see your relationship through rose tinted glasses then settle for what you have. Harsh I know,but you need to choose .A life of wondering if your gf loves you or take the rose tinted glasses off and find true love.
Good luck on your journey.
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