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writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months. We have a great relationship, physically and otherwise. But she won't give me oral. Originally she wouldn't even allow me to give her oral, but now it is ok. She seems to enjoy it now, but she has only done it to me once. Regrettably, we talked about past relationships and what we did in them. She said she gave her last guy oral many times. I know I'm a selfish ass, but it really bothers me that she would do it to him "many times" but wont give it to me.Am I wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): When a girl is 1st with a guy, she wants him to get addicted to her, so she gives him oral. Most women don't enjoy this after the relationship starts to get comfortable. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Imagine having to suck on a penis. It's not the most enjoyable experience especially if she has a small mouth like I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): She properly didn't like doing it was her ex, maybe he pressured her into doing it alot of times. Have you even asked her to give you oral?
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female
reader, happytochat  +, writes (17 September 2007):
Have you asked her WHY she wont do it for you?
Have you asked her to do it for you? Maybe she doesnt realise that you want it. Maybe she thought you dindt enjoy it the one time she did it for you, so she didnt offer to do it again.
Maybe she never really liked doing it, perhaps she felt pressured to do it all the time for her ex.
This could just be a whole lot of miscommunication. Talk about it :)
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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (17 September 2007):
 can please just ask what is the bid deal on oral sex.
why cant you guys just be happy with vaginal sex please allow me to under stand
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): have you thought that maybe she didnt like giving him oral?? pressure from a man to do something you dont want to can only make you resent them. im 17 and my bf was rly eager to do oral and anal with me, id never done it before and to be honest i didnt want to, i explained to him my fears and how i was rly nervous and he was ok about it, he even dropped the subject. then i gradually came round to the idea. maybe you jus gotta give her some time. think about it, dont pressure her and she may come round to the idea.
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