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writes:My girlfriend says she loves and cares for me but our relationship doesn't feel good now she doesn't want to see me for a week. please help i don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (10 March 2007):
 You haven`t said why she dosn`t want to see you for a week, I don`t know if she told you why? On so little to go on, like the other aunts have said, maybe she needs some "time out", for whatever reason, and you should give her this (as long as this isn`t going to become a regular thing). She says she loves you; try to take solace in this. Right now, a week seems a long time, especially if you`re worrying, But, as sure as night follows day, the week will be over; and then you will know exactly where you stand. I think it`s one of those times when a minute seems to last an hour; and an hour lasts a day. Try to keep busy to make the time pass, and make sure you eat (even if you don`t feel like it). When the week is over, Please let us know how you`re both doing; and in the meantime, if you`re fed up or lonely, or just don`t know what to do with yourself, you can always log into this site. Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): you need to find out a reason from her, it mayb that she just wants time to herself to think things through!!
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reader, berry +, writes (9 March 2007):
 MY advice is to give her that space, dont txt or call her, if she wants to continue to be with you she will come back, listen to her needs, good luck !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007): It could be because she wants some time for you two to miss eachother. i mean, if in a relationship you see the person everyday, or near to it, then the relationship can get dull more quickly and you will both get bored more quickly too.it could mean she really loves you and she just wants you two to miss eachother so when you see her again you can value the time you have with eachother. :) :)its not a bad thing!
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Has she given you any reason why she doesnt want to see you. Maybe she just needs some time for herself. If she say she still loves you and cares for you then maybe things are not that bad. Every relationship has their ups and downs and maybe this is just a rough patch. Try and talk to her and see whats on her mind and if its a case that she just needs a bit of space then give her some time. Hopefully things will be ok
Aunty t
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