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writes:Ok so I have been dating a girl for 4 years. We broke up because she wanted space and than start seeing someone else. After she told me that i stopped talking to her. We were broken up for about 7 months. Not sure how long she was with this other guy. Anyway after i stopped talking to her she came back to me and wanted to start dating me again.Well being weak i guess. I took her back. I love her. Well now she says i love you to me but it just doesnt feel the same anymore. I feel like i can't trust her and its only a matter of time before she meets someone new again. We have been back together about a month now. Should i begin to trust her or break it off. We are in a long distance relationship so it is hard to see each other. This makes it all the more difficult. Probably one of the biggest reason we split in the first place. Is it worth it to try and repair the trust and the damage done to this relationship? How do I approach her about my feelings?
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reader, athenas +, writes (19 June 2009):
Hey there!!! Well you really need to tell her what you feel if theres questions that you want to ask her about the relationship she was go for it that way you can clear your doubts. But if your feeling uncomfortable with her and you just dont feel the same with her its a waste of time being with a person that you have no feelings for because all there will be is problems and no trust and no comunication between you two and you really need that in a relationship. Just analize your feelings and think what you really want. Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): Hmm I,in my opinion,think you should break it off.You dont trust her and the relationship seems damaged because of the way you are feeling about her and expecting her to just leave when someone else comes along that she likes. just say to her you dont feel this relationship has a future and feels too damaged and you are too hurt by everything thats happened.I think that will ease things and let you both get away easily and not too badly hurt.i dont wish to let things end badly im trying to put it in the easiest way possible.
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