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kris_85
writes: Dear Cupid,I have a 'friend' who i have been seeing alot lately whether it be a date, at my house for a swim or even we go shopping together. She has even called in sick at work just to spend the day with me (in my pool, lunch, then the movies). She is very sexy and i am almost sure i am in love with her. However, even though we are so close and even after i have mentioned my feelings towards her, her exact reply was that " she hates losing good friends after they ask her out, and she also said that i am like a brother to her" .... I was a little heart broken from these remarks but we still go on dates to the movies, theme parks and everything at least twice a week just without the kissing and the intimacy.....We are really good friends but i cannot seem to crack the code of turning this friend into my girlfriend.....What do i do??
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reader, kris_85 +, writes (29 November 2006):
kris_85 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks heaps smeedle....
You sound like you know what you're talkin about.....You are right though it is very hard to be friends with girls in this way and it is very rare...I will take your advice and relax 4 the time being....Hopefully something develops in future (near future...hehe) but i won't push my luck any further for now....
Thanx again...
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (28 November 2006):
 Be glad you have such a wonderful friend, she sounds like a friend that will always be with you to share the ups and downs of life, there to listen to you and hold you when your heart is breaking, there for you to confide in and talk things through when life gets rough and it will.
Take your friendship for what it is and make that enough, good and loyal friends are much more of a rarity than girlfriends who will come and go with time.
Maybe in the future something will develope that takes your friendship to a new level but dont push it, just relax and love her in the plutonic way.
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