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writes:Hello all, yes I have had another problem in my relationship and would like to know peoples thoughts.After my previous posts.. We got back together this time I stood back and tried not to think to much into things that may bother me (ie photos)Things were going really well, she actually asked me to be in a relationship as bf and gf which we had never really discussed prior, untill about six days later outa the blue she said she needed to be alone and when I asked if something was wrong she said she wanted to back off, syaing she liked me alot but has things she needs to sort out with herself and it isnt the end for us that it will take sometime. Our relationship ended and since she has ignored every message I have sent her until two days ago she replied saying she has no feelings for me and doesnt want to be with me again. She has never cheated on me or is seeing anyone else that I am aware of and I truely believe she hasnt or is. Guess now im finding it hard to move on and feeling she maybe said she had no feelings to put space between us because I got to close to her and she is scared.I bought her an easter present which I have dropped at her door, didnt see the point wasting something of meaning even if she thros it away, guess that would show to move on....Want are your thoughts to this delema??
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reader, Vessence +, writes (12 April 2009):
Vessence is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSeems silly now when I toock her pressy va I found her with the guy who was from the pics I had seen months before!!!!!! Guess the truth is out ther and now i have to dust myself off. Is a shame thought she was different.
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reader, enjoimx  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 She said she doesn't have feelings for you and whether or not thats true, you have to assume it is and move on for your own sanity. Its really hard being hurt like this and it makes you question yourself and your life but don't worry, through the rough process you will grow.You don't want to be with a woman who isn't sure she likes you anyway, you are better off without her. Not that shes a bad person, but shes not right for you. You will meet someone else that is just great, just let yourself heal for a few months and focus on having fun and a good life. Forget about her, and completely cut off communication if you want to be successful.
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