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female
age
30-35,
*elples
writes:I have a male friend who is in need of some assistance on this girl he likes. He has liked her for a long time. They've been best friends for three years. Right now, he's away at college for the summer, and he's planning to come back for the remaining two weeks we don't have class. He sent me this text message, "Well she was telling me how we needed to 'talk'... and she said that it wasn't so great... and at first she said we would talk online... but then she said she'll talk when I get back home.. cuz it would be worst if she were to say it over chat thingy.. so she prefers us talking in person." He's worried something bad will happen to his relationship with her. He doesn't know whether to push the situation, get her to talk earlier, or just wait until he comes home. What should he do?
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reader, Knight_in_White_Satin  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Sorry to say but it sounds like she's going to break up with him. At least she's got the decency to do it face to face rather than dropping numerous obvious hints online or via text then refusing to talk to him.I could be wrong and she wants to talk about where their relationship is going or that she needs to tell him something major (ranging from been pregnant to having cheated on him). If she feels it would be best in person then i suggest he come home as all information is easier to process and do things about if the person is infront of you than if it's online or over the phone. Knight xxx
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