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*rod310
writes:me and my girlfriend have been together for about 1 year now and things were going great until she had to move back with her family recently. She now lives about an hour away from me which isn't bad to me but now she says she needs her space and she is on the "if" side of us being together now. I love this girl way to much to let her go and i have being doing my best not to. I dont see us breaking up but it has been driving me crazy on when she said she needs her space. I love this girl to death but also I wanna repsect her choice. We haven't broken up eaither but I just want to know what I should do in my relationship? I know things can work out cause I have faith in us but I just dont know what to do? Can you help me please? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Arod310 +, writes (3 November 2010):
Arod310 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI truly believe I can make this distance relationship work by visiting her when I can. I also feel like I dont wanna push her away so I havent called her in about a week and she hasn't called me either. Both my family and friends have faith in us and so do I and Im not the type of person to give up so easily when something can be fixed or worked out. I guess I just need a day to spend time with her when we are both free and let her know what Im feeling and I told her I have patience and I dare not to cheat on her. And thankyou btw =)
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reader, ashie31 +, writes (3 November 2010):
I wish my boyfriend was like that. i had to move away from my boyfriend for a while because i was in a car accident. and i hate it so much. i wish he would understand how hard it is to be away from him but he thinks it doesn bother me. just be understanding and if you guys are meant to be together it will work out to both of your advantages. good luck
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 November 2010):
 Well she's iffy about it because she's not sure she can handle a LDR. Which is normal, not everyone can handle being in one. Can you handle it? Will both of you make the necessary trips to visit one another when permitted? Are you going to be comfortable not seeing her very much and keeping up a phone relationship?
These are questions you need to consider and have a discussion with her about..The pros and cons of a LDR and if it suits you. A hour distance isn't bad, it just depends on your schedule and hers when and how often you two can see each other. Work it out.
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