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writes:Okay well I have had abit of a rough time where I found out I was pregnant it was an unwanted pregnancy and i find it a very touchy subject so i decided it would be better to abort rather than have a child that I would struggle to feed and clothe. I told my best friend about my situation because she is the only friend in my entire life I have let get really close to me. She was more like a sister and when I had a couple of weeks off school she went and said to one of my other friends that I was in england (I live in Northern Ireland) And it made it harder for people to believe me and because its illegal some of my classmates fell out with me because of rumors and the fact they didn't believe I was off. I know this is prob a really small thing but to me she broke my trust and i don't know how to handle it What do you think i should say and do to resolve the situation?
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reader, Xtina356  +, writes (17 May 2010):
Your friend just picked a bad excuse for you. She didn't break your trust. She didn't tell everyone you were pregnant. She came up with an excuse that may not have made sense to your other classmates. But would you rather they knew the truth? Let them think what they want. If they knew the truth, they probably would have been just as judgmental as they are right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Well they say you should be able to dicuss problems your having in your life with people that are close to you and not keep things bundled inside because its unhealthy. Well the downside to that is...sometimes the people you feel you can trust.... end up being the people you can least trust. Now Im not telling you not to continue to be her friend...but now you know.... she cant keep a secret so dont tell her anything that you dont want to share with whole world. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
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