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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi! there is this girl that i like at school. the problem is that i am shy. i will sometimes speak to her in my classes but i can never get a conversation going.online on bebo i will leave her comments and she will reply. i find this an easier way to talk i leave kisses. but can leaving too many messages eg 1 a day annoy a girl?also she will send kisses to other males who have left comments but not me. why is this? has anyone got any tips?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): hi! i was the person who posted the question.
the thing is we used to be very good friends a couple of months ago. we will still speak to each other and i will walk her to her classes etc. i know she likes silly things so is there anything i can bring up in conversations to make her laugh?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): Maybe it's because she doesn't like you (in the romantic way i mean). Move on, after all what's the point of wasting your time on somebody who isn't interested in you back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): Yes, leaving too many comments do annoy girls, if I were you I'd probably stop completely and see if she starts trieing to talk to you first. This will take her by surprise and if she does start trieing to talk to you first you do have a chance with her, otherwise I dont think shes intrested. It could be she leaves kisses to other guys and not you because she doesnt want to lead you on, or it could be that she wants to make you jealous, or she does like yuo she's just not sure how you feel about her so she doesnt want to come on too strong.
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reader, Auntie Amber :)  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 i have 2 say i disagree with u livi! he cannot tell a girl he loves her and pressure her into sayin it back thats not fair...love takes time...dnt force love or it wont work out! xx auntie amber xx
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Hey there,
Your girlfriend sounds like she is a bit confused.
if you dont talk to her whenever you see her she might think you dont like her.
If you talk to her and tell her you sometimes get shy in public and you dont like her sending kisses to people and not you, im sure she will understand, how else is she to know this is bothering you?
Also, try adding "I love you" or something to that effect, that she cant really ignore, at the end of a message, then she will feel she has to say i love you too.
Good luck with it : D
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