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writes:Am a guy of 27,i've been dating a lady since 1999.Last year i presurise that we should get married but she told me to wait till end of 2009 and if i'll not wait she can release me to look for another.Could she be trying to discourage me or what?Kindly advice,Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 If you want to know whether she loves you or not,try leaving her.
You need to find out how deep is her love for you . If she lets you go , then you need to move on and do not waste any more of your time on her.
What if come end of 2009 and she will give another postponed decision?
Whats her reason for making this call?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 This is a Big Red Flag.
How old is she, and does she have a reason to wait? For example, does she wish to wait until she finishes school?
If there is no reason to wait, it may be a sign that she isn't REALLY interested in marrying you, and is looking for YOU to break it off with her, so that she does not have to be blamed for the break up.
-Frank B Kermit
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