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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:i liked/like this girl a lot !! for one whole year now and nothing happened because i new she doesnt like me. and eventually after a long year in hope, i got the answer saying that she doesnt like me. This was when my friends asked her about me.i truly understand what its like for her, she doesnt have to like me, i gave up on her for quite some time and i keep telling myself that there is nothing i can do about it and that i should just be good friends with her. The problem is that when i am around her, i dont know how to behave, my mood changes quickly, i start thinking about her again and i cant decide whether to be looking chilled out and as if i dont care or to be very nice to her talkin all the time.She always knew that i liked her but she didnt give a crap about it for a long time. She is also an attention seeker and tries to play dirty sometimes, when i pretend that im not bothered about her, she notices that and suddenly comes to me and tries to somehow have any randomn convo and sometimes about this other guy who looked tall and hot etc.......and when i am in a good mood and talkative, she treats me like shit again. She confessed that i am a good friend of hers and that she never thought about me that way.....which is perfectly understandablei just dont understand how to be around her?? !!! Reply to this Question
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reader, spinnaker  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 She really enjoys stirring the pot and trying to get a reaction out of people.
Unless you enjoy being the target of this type of attention seeking and manipulation, you should limit your contact with her.
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