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writes:I am not feeling well as I am writing this. I have just found out that my girlfriend still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. She has been hanging with him a lot lately and she has just admitted that she has now grown feelings for him again. We had been going out for 4 months. Knowing that we could not be happy if she has feelings for someone else, I ended our relationship. Ever since, I have not been talking to her at all, I don't want to talk to her just yet. But, what i need is some advice. How can I mend my broken heart? It hurt me so much that someone I love actually loves someone else. It's painful to see her, and I have to see her since we go to the same school. So far I have thrown away everything that reminds me of her, all her poems, all her pictures, anything that reminds me of her. And i keep myself busy by exercising, and other things. Yet sometimes i find myself thinking about her. Sometimes i even think of what she is doing with the ex-boyfriend that she still has feelings for. Please help, my heart is shattered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Yeah I know, it hurts so much when the girl you love doesn't love you back. And I can feel your pain about having to see her all the time that sucks. So just try, and do what you are doing stay busy. Also try to find someone else who does want to be with you, and when you do you will forget all about this other girl.
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reader, mrs.smith81608 +, writes (23 April 2009):
You are so young to be really worrying about problems like this! I'm not really judging, just making a statement. It will hurt like nothing else for a while, but remember that it's not the end of the world. You will find another girl with whom you will love and will love you back so many times before you are actually ready to settle down later in your life that it will make your head spin. You sound so smart, and you're very well spoken for someone young.(sorry to keep saying that) What I'm trying to say is that you seem smart enough to already know what to do, but I think you just needed to hear it from other sources.
Just get on with your life, and enjoy being young. Don't stress over growing up so quickly. Ride your bike, play video games, hang with your friends, whatever it is that you like to do with out her in it, do it!
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