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writes: I have liked this girl for a while and she has a boyfriend and the other day she came to a party at my place on a Sat. At the end of the night we got together and on the Monday she said that it was a mistake and she just wanted to forget it. i felt like had been kicked in the gut, i can't stop thinking of her and i feel sick. I just don't know what to do, i've spoken to friends but i still feel the same.What do i do?
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reader, southernsky21  +, writes (22 August 2010):
Dude,
I know you are gonna hate me for this, and I respect you for your honesty, but back off before everything comes out, and someone gets emotionally or physically hurt.
As her friend, you should want her to be happy with her current boyfriend, but you made a selfish decision and so did she. She showed you a side of her that should make you NOT want to date her. She CHEATED on him with you, so dont think that she wouldnt do the same to you if yall were dating.
Plenty of nice women out there looking for an honest guy like you and I commend you for confessing your mistake, but, whats dark always comes to light. Get away while you can my brother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, trying to move on, it's just so hard
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Don't DO anything. She said that it was a mistake so she obviously doesn't feel the same way you do. Find a woman who is avaliable.
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reader, tomm_00  +, writes (17 August 2010):
Dude, your not going to like this but shes taken. If someone liked my girlfriend i would take them out the equasion. you need to get out there and find someone who isnt taken. its hard i no but you have to do it.
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reader, misspurple +, writes (17 August 2010):
You have to leave her alone i'm afraid. She has realised it was a mistake and doesn't want to know anymore so try to forget about her. It is normal after being with someone one night and then can't stop thinking about them all the time but you soon do. She was probably just using you as a cheap thrill then felt guilty about it. So forget her and move on so you can find someone better.
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