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writes: I am 28.5 yrs old man, (origin - India), I have been living in australia for the past 2 yrs, and will be here for the next 3 more yrs atleast.Last year in October 2005 I met this Lovely lady age: 30, who is a single mum with kids...we fell in love, everything was going so well !She didnt like me smoking and drinking, and going out to clubs on every weekend. I am a resident DJ in a club. I liked the night life and all that jazz. She kept on complaining abt my out going habbits, until one day she finally gave up, and said we are too different, and she doesnt feel the way same anymore and that we should eb friends. We broke up on 1st April 2006, since then i have been bothering her to get back to me, i feel jealous, I sometimes have acted kiddish and stupid. I dont know what to do : ( She confessed to one of my friend that she likes me a lot and cares for me, respects me too much and doesnt want to lose me, but she cant help it coz she doesnt feel the way same. But she said, she would like to take things from sractch and then move to a higher level. I was happy to hear that frm my friend, but lately she made this guy friend who is 23, in my club and one day she came to the club and in the end she left with him, i cudnt bare the site ...i started panicing in front of her, she didnt like it and emphasised that he is just a friend and he is just 23 ! Well yesterday...i.e. Monday (8th May) i called her up and this same guy picked up the phone and said she is not at home, and i was like all fired up ..that what the hell is he doing at her place...later she told me that he wanted to pay a visit so he came...I took this too personal while talking to her on the phone, and ended up acting stupid and jealous again.....for the past 1.5 month i have been going through sleepless night and I dont know what ...its been affecting my mood, my work, my health....Please please ! help me get her back in a decent way , so that i can keep her happy and love her the way she deserve to : (My family situation is pretty well, everything alright at that end. Its my personal relationship which is making my life so diificult to deal with : (She loved me like hell , i suppose she still does : ( , but she is not with me anymore now : ( Waiting for your reply : (RegardsPP.S. I have quit smoking and drinking and goin to clubs for my good, and for us ! about a month back and she knows that.
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reader, hpoolnat +, writes (10 May 2006):
im sorry for your loss but if a partner wants a partner to stop everything they are used to and want to do then it isnt worth it, if someone loves someone then they shouldnt care what you do with your life aslong as you didnt take it too far. and as for this other man on the phone then just leave it and move on im sure there is plenty of people out there looking for a wild man who likes to party as much as them try a dateing agency www.match.com put what you enjoy doing and see if you get a reply!.
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