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writes:am in love with my friend. she likes me. but doesn't love me coz she has lost hope in love. wat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): I may be younger than you (much younger), but I think I can help. If this sounds rash, then don't follow it. I don't wanna ruin your life or anything. But always remember. Love is a strong emotion, usually unrivaled. She may say she lost hope in love, but that might not neccesarily be true. If she likes you, then you are a leg forward. Just try to almost "coax" her into beliveing in love again. Don't rush things. If she thinks she gave up due to some still existent emotional trauma, then it'll take some time to recover. Give her space when neccesary, give her time, joy, and most of all, let her know that no matter what, you'll be there to help her. But still don't rush. Once she seems to have opened up to you, confess your feelings once and for all. I hope this helped.
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