A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I did something stupid. I went on a party bus with a bunch of friends a couple nights ago and ended up sleeping with my friend's unofficial ex boyfriend. (Granted, I don't know if she'd mind considering she's happily in love with someone else now.) They dated three years ago. They were not serious at the time, just kept it about sex.But here's the thing, I stopped having sex with the guy once we started ,but there was penetration. I said I wasn't comfortable and then we both passed out and fell asleep. I don't know if I should tell my friend about this, nothing is going to happen with this guy in the future but I feel super guilty. should I tell my friend what happened? or should I keep it to myself? Please help. Btw this friend and I have been friends since we were five years old, we're both 22 now. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionactually i did end up telling her and she goes "hahahahahahaha best news Ive heard all week!" and she was serious. she thought it was funny...so here I was thinking I did this terrible thing, which i still think was terrible, but in her perspective she didn't care. weird, huh?
A
female
reader, Jaydee76 +, writes (17 July 2010):
I really think this is a matter of 'Do you want her to know now, or later?'. If you've seen the movies, then you know that keeping it from her will just come back to haunt you later. Either way, she'll most likely find out somehow.
...............................
|
