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Sex still hurts her

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Question - (14 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *layton writes:

alright so my girlfriend and i had sex for the first time like a month ago and we have had sex like 5 times sence and it still hurts her...why? shes always wet when we do? she said the first time it was really painfull and the more we do it the less painfull it is but when will it start to feel good for her? i mean i enjoy it but its pointless cus shes not getting off what can we do do make it feel better for her?

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A male reader, clayton United States +, writes (16 August 2010):

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thanks =) its just that she doesent want sex now cus shes afarid it will hurt her =(

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A female reader, T-Marie United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2010):

T-Marie agony auntHey there,

The best thing I can advise is that you take plenty of time with foreplay, although she is wet when you have sex she may not be particularly relaxed, especially if she is thinking it is going to hurt or be uncomfortable for her. The more relaxed she feels the less it should hurt.

Give it time and things should get better. If things do not improve in the next few weeks she could go and see the doctor and see what they suggest.

Hope this helps xxx T

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