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writes:i had sex for the first time yesterday and then a second time today; but i just couldn't seem to relax today. when he entered me he basically got pushed out again. i think it could be the fact i'm still nervous but is there any other position that might make it easier to let him enter me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Guthrie  +, writes (12 June 2011):
I suggest you use a doggy style to enable your boyfriend fucks you from behind (2)you can sit on top your boyfriend penis to enable you feel the real fuck and pleasure of your breast bouncing up and down or feel free to spread your legs open so that your boyfriend can fucks you with pleasure and happiness
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reader, topher747 +, writes (12 June 2011):
 i agree with angeldlite, get him to spend more time on you, then you will be able to relax and be able to get in to it.but if you want to try out different positions theres a few on http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): foreplay deffinatly is a good idea, especially for you as it will help you to relax and "loosen up" as it were, but i also had this issue, i found missionary position was really difficult so we tried me on top and him on bottom and it really worked. at the end of the day you've already done it once, so why be nervous the second time? i know that saounds weird but trust me thats what i think to my self when i get nervous or embarrassed about the bedroom i just think " why am i getting worked up ive done this before!" and it sets my mind at ease :)really hope this helps hunx
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reader, Sandys Advice  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Hi, it seems to me that you are still very nervous have some forplay first untill you are more relaxed because you are tensing up without realising your doing it, if you haven already tried lie on your back with your legs over your boyfriends shoulders it should make it alot easier for you and him, or you could get on top of him were he lies on his back and you sit on top with your legs over him like as if you are kneeling it will stay in an shouldn't slip back out if you take it easy at first good luck and use protection :)
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (12 June 2011):
 maybe spend more time on foreplay (for you!) so that you are properly aroused and ready
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