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Laurel Barnet
writes:You know that your life will change after having a baby. However, you may have been surprised how your marriage relationship, as well as sex, changed after you became parents.Before you became parents, your marriage was probably much easier. You were more spontaneous since you did not have to get a babysitter or worry about the kids walking in on you. There was more time and energy for each other and for sex. Then the blessed baby came along and your entire relationship changed. Life can now be divided into two chapters. Chapter one is life before children, and chapter two is life after children. Your entire existence was transformed the day you became parents. Even your leisure activities have changed. bChapter 1: Before Children You:/b Stayed up late making loveSpent Saturday mornings “making out”Wore sexy lingerieSmelled like perfume or cologneVisited quaint bed and breakfasts bChapter 2: After Having Children You:/bStay up late feeding the babySpend Saturday mornings watching Mickey Mouse cartoonsWear flannel pajamasSmell like baby spit-upVisit McDonald's for breakfast bBeing Parents and Lovers/bWelcome to parenthood. So with all these changes, how do you keep the fire of passion burning with so much damp wood lying around? Even though your circumstances have changed, you can still make your relationship and sex life a priority.The solutions sound simple, but it is not always easy consistently to do. Here are two suggestions to get you started:1. Make spending time together and romance a priority.2. Spend time touching outside of sex. Do you remember how you used to snuggle together and smooch? Do it again.bGet Started/bIt is possible to have an active family life and an active love life. Pick one of these tips and start doing it today.Do you want more tips and tools for keeping your marriage sizzling after having kids? Then download a free report on being "Daytime Parents and Nighttime Lovers" at a target="_new" href="http://www.SexTipsForParents.com"http://www.SexTipsForParents.com/a.Sex is to marriage what hot is to soup. You can have one without the other, but it is not nearly as palatable. Good luck in building your dream marriage- from Jeff and Laurel Barnet
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reader, Laurel Barnet +, writes (12 October 2007):
Laurel Barnet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJovial,
As a women's health nurse practitioner, I see moms in my office everyday complaining about losing interest in sex. You are not alone and there are things that you can do to revive your interest in your relationship.
Good luck,
Laurel
www.SexTipsForMoms.com
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (12 October 2007):
 Thanx for a great article. I am not married but am a parent so is my partner so it is quite challenge and sometimes it feels like we are just not doing something right. so its good to know every parents goes through the same challenges.
Thanx again
Jovial
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