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writes: ther is a woman i have liked for the last 3 years i have don all that i can think of.i have sent her b-day gifts v-day gifts but she still dos not love me.what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): What do you do?
I should think after three years of sending birthday and valentine's day cards and gifts, you would know what to do!
Isn't it obvious by now? GIVE IT UP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Yes, like Eddie has said, you can't force someone to like/love you for any reason. Just because you send gifts to her and pay attention to her doesn't mean that it automatically converts to liking/loving you back. If that was the case, then that would be the most superficial thing without a real solid foundation for a relationship to happen upon.
If she isn't interested and you're trying so hard through superficial reasons, then you may have a very delusional idea of what love or liking someone really is. Further that, if you cannot naturally be a more sentimental gentleman, then most likely this isn't something for you. At the least, she isn't the type of woman for you. You might find giving gifts and paying more of that type of attention towards those who enjoy sugar daddies more so than friendship and companionship.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (3 December 2006):
 Was ther ever any sign from her that she was iterested in you? If not, it sounds like you're stalking her. You can't force somebody to desire you. It sounds like you should move on. Get some help if you can't let go, perhaps from a councellor.
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