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Secretive boyfriend makes me paranoid

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Question - (29 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2009)
A female Ireland age 36-40, *rish girl writes:

Hopefully someone can help me..

have been with a guy for 2years broke up (for the 100th time) recently bcos theres is no trust what so ever, i know yer probably thinkin "no trust no future" but god do we love eachother!!

We have tried to end it and i have tried to move on with other guys but I just dont get that "feeling" that I get with him!!

The reason there is no trust (on my part) is cos at the start this guy was really secretive bout stuff, he said he never cheated on me but I used to find messages from other girls that he insists were just friends..over the lst 6months he has really changed his ways and has stoped even txtn girls cos he knows it upsets me!!Everytim we break up he begs me bk so I get bk with him, its great for bout 3months and we have a massive fite over sumtin like him lookin at a girl.. Is it me or is our relationship doomed?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009):

Its impossible to talk to him, he just says its my fault and that im a drama queen!!

I know he loves me cos most of the time he treats me like a queen but someting inside of me is telling me to forget him, that he's gonna mess me around in the future thats y we are always breaking up cos to be honest I use any excuse to start a fite and end it for a few weeks and im so angry at him cos I wouldnt be like this if he was straight with me at the start....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009):

Ya but i would be able to trust him if he was honest with me at the start and not have messages on his fone from other girls and he has a past of cheatin on girls so what am I supose to think?!

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