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writes:well um im in love with someone right now. But the thing is that we are going out secretly and they are still in a relationship. i dont know if i should stay or go i always say i dont wanna talk to them as long as they are together and they just beg for me to keep being with them! i think im sprung!!!! what should i do?!do they really love me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 Think about this, what kind of guy cheats on his girlfriend to be with someone else, and if he is doing this to his current girlfriend (not you) then wouldnt he just do it to you to? Also, he is cheating on you too. So he is cheating on two people and lying to both of them. Leave him alone, no matter how hard it will be its worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2008): I hate to say this, but the person is probably going through a tough time in the relationshup, or is looking for something new and interesting, and may not really be in love with you.
Either way, the outcome is likely to upset you. While there is a chance that this could turn into a wonderful romance for you, it's more likely that the person will realize they are meant to be with the one they are already with, which will only break your heart.
Either way, do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who cheated on someone else to be with you? Odds are this person is likely to continue his or her cheating ways.
This situation is awful. Trust me, I know from experience.
Good luck!
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (24 October 2008):
 This is slightly confusing. When you say they and them are you saying you are with more than one person?
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